Salut a tous-toutes
voici un beau p'tit site pour l'éducation sexuelle
et je peut vous dire
que même si vous pensez en savoir long sur le sujet
...
je suis certain que vous trouverez sur ce site
qqc de nouveau a apprendre
et mettre en pratique ¶:-D
http://grapesandsex.blogspot.com/?zx=1bdb0f04d6e542c9
xx
Sim
dimanche 22 novembre 2009
Everything is inside of you ...
There's not a lot of things that I am using from my father, I am not one of the kind who is walking in his shoes :-P
But, with the years, I am looking at the life with new eyes ... that is what we call the experience
To acquire this experience, there is only 2 ways ... you can learn it from people around you, from books, I mean that you are learning without being confronted to the representing problem.
the second way is as you maybe expect, TO BE directly confronted to the problem, by following that way, you are walking alone and you will learn by yourself, .. so, there is chances that everything will go just fine, and there is also chances that you hit the wall or the shit hit the fan :-)
and that is hurt
When I was younger (I like to say "when I was younger" because I am 34 but i still fell young ¶;=P )
I was like many other younger people ... parents advice are just a piece of crap, they don't know a thing about life ... :-)
we are so empty brain like :-D !!!
Here is what I remember the most of my father and i use the most since many years in many parts of my life
He said to me one day "Do not be afraid to give" For him I think he was mostly talking about give all your best for your job, do not wait that someone ask you to do something, if there is something to do, just do it, do not ask questions and do not expect to be granted for it, do it and somewhere in your life you will be granted ... (He did not said it like that but with the years, it's how I am using it)
and it works !!!
At the job, with friends, sharing with people, giving a part of your time for volunteering
I am giving the best of me most of the time, I am human I feel lazy sometimes too but not all the time
Like at the job, I am giving my best and i receive very nice feedback, and even feedback like raising of my wage :-P Hou!! Hou !!
Do not wait for something in return of your actions. Give mean make a free donation, if I am helping you moving your stuff, I will be very happy if you are coming to help me when I will move my own, but I do not have any reason to be pissed off if you are not helping me ...
(I have to mention that there's also a difference between giving to someone and being used like a donkey by someone :-P )
Give is so important, and you have to give the best of the best to yourself, the most important person is always ourself.
When you are giving, your self esteem is increasing, and you will fell it so much more when you are giving to yourself because you are giving wellness to yourself, you taking time to take care of yourself, you can look at yourself and be proud of what you had done
It is like a turning wheel, you are giving, that makes you proud, that increase your self esteem and your wellness, you feel better, happier, you continue to give to yourself and to people around you, and if everything is going fine in your life, if you are happy to be you, you have a job that you like, you are respectful about you and other people, you will be able to be more attentive to what to life is giving to you
Not only raising of your job wage, or your friend who will accept to help you, you will enjoy such simple things like they are big gifts.
It could be the rising sun, having a nice walk in the woods with the nice smells, it could be having fun with co-workers, it could be anything that you could see looking to the life ... with your brand new eyes
See ya
Simon
But, with the years, I am looking at the life with new eyes ... that is what we call the experience
To acquire this experience, there is only 2 ways ... you can learn it from people around you, from books, I mean that you are learning without being confronted to the representing problem.
the second way is as you maybe expect, TO BE directly confronted to the problem, by following that way, you are walking alone and you will learn by yourself, .. so, there is chances that everything will go just fine, and there is also chances that you hit the wall or the shit hit the fan :-)
and that is hurt
When I was younger (I like to say "when I was younger" because I am 34 but i still fell young ¶;=P )
I was like many other younger people ... parents advice are just a piece of crap, they don't know a thing about life ... :-)
we are so empty brain like :-D !!!
Here is what I remember the most of my father and i use the most since many years in many parts of my life
He said to me one day "Do not be afraid to give" For him I think he was mostly talking about give all your best for your job, do not wait that someone ask you to do something, if there is something to do, just do it, do not ask questions and do not expect to be granted for it, do it and somewhere in your life you will be granted ... (He did not said it like that but with the years, it's how I am using it)
and it works !!!
At the job, with friends, sharing with people, giving a part of your time for volunteering
I am giving the best of me most of the time, I am human I feel lazy sometimes too but not all the time
Like at the job, I am giving my best and i receive very nice feedback, and even feedback like raising of my wage :-P Hou!! Hou !!
Do not wait for something in return of your actions. Give mean make a free donation, if I am helping you moving your stuff, I will be very happy if you are coming to help me when I will move my own, but I do not have any reason to be pissed off if you are not helping me ...
(I have to mention that there's also a difference between giving to someone and being used like a donkey by someone :-P )
Give is so important, and you have to give the best of the best to yourself, the most important person is always ourself.
When you are giving, your self esteem is increasing, and you will fell it so much more when you are giving to yourself because you are giving wellness to yourself, you taking time to take care of yourself, you can look at yourself and be proud of what you had done
It is like a turning wheel, you are giving, that makes you proud, that increase your self esteem and your wellness, you feel better, happier, you continue to give to yourself and to people around you, and if everything is going fine in your life, if you are happy to be you, you have a job that you like, you are respectful about you and other people, you will be able to be more attentive to what to life is giving to you
Not only raising of your job wage, or your friend who will accept to help you, you will enjoy such simple things like they are big gifts.
It could be the rising sun, having a nice walk in the woods with the nice smells, it could be having fun with co-workers, it could be anything that you could see looking to the life ... with your brand new eyes
See ya
Simon
just for laugh
There's things that will always stay unsolved
...
and that's what i'm thinking about tonight
i'm probably a bit tired, so that's why thoses questions running in my head
but
think about it ...
and laugh
¶;-P
1- Why when your toast fall on the floor .. it will always fall on the floor, on the side with Pb. & Jam ??? :-)
and that will make your brain a bit more hot !!! ...
2- if you tie a toast on the back of a cat, and you let the cat fall on the floor ....
what's gonna hit the flor ?!?!??!?! ,,,, the cat or the toast !?!??!?!?
oooooooo
think about it ,,,
and laugh ...
i'm sure i'm the only one who's thinking about it tonight
LOL
good nite, morning or else
Simon
Kelowna, B.C. Canada, Earth, Milky Way
...
and that's what i'm thinking about tonight
i'm probably a bit tired, so that's why thoses questions running in my head
but
think about it ...
and laugh
¶;-P
1- Why when your toast fall on the floor .. it will always fall on the floor, on the side with Pb. & Jam ??? :-)
and that will make your brain a bit more hot !!! ...
2- if you tie a toast on the back of a cat, and you let the cat fall on the floor ....
what's gonna hit the flor ?!?!??!?! ,,,, the cat or the toast !?!??!?!?
oooooooo
think about it ,,,
and laugh ...
i'm sure i'm the only one who's thinking about it tonight
LOL
good nite, morning or else
Simon
Kelowna, B.C. Canada, Earth, Milky Way
Facts about the life
Sometimes,
you are looking to have a nice life.
I think most people are doing that way.
The car, the house, the bank account, kids if desired, each weeks, putting 100$ to invest for the old days, the vacations
Is that the essence of life ?
If you give a useless gift to a person like that, there's many chances that your gift will be stored somewhere at the end of the basement, with dust :-P
If you give the same gift to a homeless, even if he don't need it, he will enjoy it, he will trade it, he will transform it then he will be able to use it at his entire possibilities.
I think that most people are lost in their comfort zone and they didn't enjoy fully their life.
They are most like a part of the wheel and they are stuck there.
They didn't have the time to see what the life have to give because they are running after their life
... their nice vision of life ...
... this nice life ... is it really the life that they want or it's just the kind of perfect life most poeple are looking to without asking questions ?
To be able to really live, feel what is inside of you, be amazed by any little tiny things like a 5 years old child, you must, somewhere in your life had learned that
It happens sometimes to fall, then you will have to make many efforts to get back on your feets
Sometimes life can hurt you really bad...
All you can do is accept what you had done in your past
have a good present life, make the right choices,
for the future, noboby's can tell about it so enjoy fully the present time, each drop of it
NOTHING IS FREE !! you have to work to buy things ... but
even for things that you cannot buy, you will have to "work" to gain them ... and you will have to work again to keep thoses alive ...
(I'm talking about friendship, sharing, love, respect, honesty, ...)
Nothing is happening for nothing, even in the worst part of your life it will have something to learn about it
"THE LIFE" will never leave you in front of something you cannot get thru it
There's only two way for learning from the life,
1- From the past experience of others, they teach you like "Don't put your hand on the oven !!"
2- From your own suffering, "you put you hand on the oven, it hurts, you had learned someting"
... it's not just about physic pain, it's also about psychic pain, emotional pain you know
Today, try to open your eyes, maybe it's gonna be hard the first time, like removing your sunglasses on a beautiful sunny day, and look at your life like you never looked at it.
See everything around you that add beauty around you.
Feel this happiness and share it with everyone because as you maybe know ...
life is also working like a wheel !!, it's a win-win Wheel ...
You give, and you will receive
Hope you fully enjoy this rainy day as me
See ya
Sim.
xx
you are looking to have a nice life.
I think most people are doing that way.
The car, the house, the bank account, kids if desired, each weeks, putting 100$ to invest for the old days, the vacations
Is that the essence of life ?
If you give a useless gift to a person like that, there's many chances that your gift will be stored somewhere at the end of the basement, with dust :-P
If you give the same gift to a homeless, even if he don't need it, he will enjoy it, he will trade it, he will transform it then he will be able to use it at his entire possibilities.
I think that most people are lost in their comfort zone and they didn't enjoy fully their life.
They are most like a part of the wheel and they are stuck there.
They didn't have the time to see what the life have to give because they are running after their life
... their nice vision of life ...
... this nice life ... is it really the life that they want or it's just the kind of perfect life most poeple are looking to without asking questions ?
To be able to really live, feel what is inside of you, be amazed by any little tiny things like a 5 years old child, you must, somewhere in your life had learned that
It happens sometimes to fall, then you will have to make many efforts to get back on your feets
Sometimes life can hurt you really bad...
All you can do is accept what you had done in your past
have a good present life, make the right choices,
for the future, noboby's can tell about it so enjoy fully the present time, each drop of it
NOTHING IS FREE !! you have to work to buy things ... but
even for things that you cannot buy, you will have to "work" to gain them ... and you will have to work again to keep thoses alive ...
(I'm talking about friendship, sharing, love, respect, honesty, ...)
Nothing is happening for nothing, even in the worst part of your life it will have something to learn about it
"THE LIFE" will never leave you in front of something you cannot get thru it
There's only two way for learning from the life,
1- From the past experience of others, they teach you like "Don't put your hand on the oven !!"
2- From your own suffering, "you put you hand on the oven, it hurts, you had learned someting"
... it's not just about physic pain, it's also about psychic pain, emotional pain you know
Today, try to open your eyes, maybe it's gonna be hard the first time, like removing your sunglasses on a beautiful sunny day, and look at your life like you never looked at it.
See everything around you that add beauty around you.
Feel this happiness and share it with everyone because as you maybe know ...
life is also working like a wheel !!, it's a win-win Wheel ...
You give, and you will receive
Hope you fully enjoy this rainy day as me
See ya
Sim.
xx
Think about it - nice sentence :-)
The man is made of FIRE
The woman is made of OAKUM
AND
The devil is still around ready to blow
Think about it what is that mean for you ?
Is that talking about love ?
Relationship ?
The woman is made of OAKUM
AND
The devil is still around ready to blow
Think about it what is that mean for you ?
Is that talking about love ?
Relationship ?
How I Feel ... I am ME !!
What's she got that I don't have
Does she fill those spaces that I left you
When you wake up everynight
Does the scent of regret ever haunt you
Put this under your skin
I am me and I won't change for anyone
Me and I won't change for anyone
For anyone like you
Does the weight of consequence
Drag you down until it pulls you under
Does she lend an eager hand to save you
From the future of being with her
Are you with her?
Put this under her skin
I am me and I won't change for anyone
Me and I won't change for anyone
For anyone like you
Why would I, Why would I change
Why would I change
Put this under your skin
"I Am Me" - Ashlee Simpson
Does she fill those spaces that I left you
When you wake up everynight
Does the scent of regret ever haunt you
Put this under your skin
I am me and I won't change for anyone
Me and I won't change for anyone
For anyone like you
Does the weight of consequence
Drag you down until it pulls you under
Does she lend an eager hand to save you
From the future of being with her
Are you with her?
Put this under her skin
I am me and I won't change for anyone
Me and I won't change for anyone
For anyone like you
Why would I, Why would I change
Why would I change
Put this under your skin
"I Am Me" - Ashlee Simpson
Anyone can do his-her own interpretation
the important thing is that you are unique, you are like a diamond, your value is pretty high
respect yourself, NO ONE will not do it for you
Sometimes God could be like Polysporin
I don't know what is your vision of "God". He could have million names and million faces
whathever you belive on (God, Jesus, Allah, Bouddha, Jehovah, Krishna, Ect.) is that so important ?
no one will be bigger than your God, and evetyone have to respect that !
from my side iI think that All the importance is one thing
BELIVE
Belive in you
Belive in God, as you name it, pray him or not,
Thanks him for what he gave you
and there is where i'm going with my Polysprorin :-)
To inform you, Polysporin is an antiseptic with an antibiotic.
It will help you if you getting hurt like you cut yourself
It will prevent germ to enter in the sore, it will help the cure, and it will help to leave the less cicatrix on your skin
So, today, Polysporin is my God
:-D
and don't get insulted about that
In our life, everybody will tell the same
" Nothing is perfect "
What i mean about that is in our past years, in my past years, we all had to walk across many steps to achieve what we are actually.
It could be losing a parent, it could be a lover that you are not able to forget, with me, it could be
many thing too that i could say if i did not had to pass thru thoses i sould be far from where I am now
EVERYBODY will tell the same !!
I took drugs, because my dad never hug me
I became crazy at 10 years old because my parents never gave me the dog i would like
My father was hitting me all the times
So, i think i don't have to give you more stupid example, you should understand what i mean
All thoses are cicatrix
IN MOST OF THE TIME, cause when we had been hurted, even many years later, you didn't feel the pain of thoses past injury (but sometimes we could had been hurted so hard that the pain is still there)
But the cicatrix is still there, no pain, but a rememberance of the past in your body
Today i would like to thank God, i'm saying God, but maybe i'm calling him, her or it spiritual power, Pascal, Grandma, or else for the life i have now
I would like to thank <("god")> to be my polysporin
to help me to remove my scars, plagues, and cicatrix
to help me to recover from thoses wound
to help getting my eyes WIDE OPEN to see again all thoses wonders of life
that i forgot during some past black and grey days because when it's dark it's very hard to see the sun
Now sun is in my life, it's so a nice feeling and i'm so not accustomed to it that it's like to look at the sun and crying of happiness
Remember !
Nothing is perfect, and nothing happen for nothing
If there is a step in front of you that makes you fall it's because you have to learn something from this experiment, even if it hurt's you very bad that you think you will die, it will always have something to learn from it
Do not forget ...nothing happen for nothing and if you have to stumble it's because you are able to lift up
Love
SwapFilez
Also known as Techboy
But you can call me
Simon
¶;-P
xx
whathever you belive on (God, Jesus, Allah, Bouddha, Jehovah, Krishna, Ect.) is that so important ?
no one will be bigger than your God, and evetyone have to respect that !
from my side iI think that All the importance is one thing
BELIVE
Belive in you
Belive in God, as you name it, pray him or not,
Thanks him for what he gave you
and there is where i'm going with my Polysprorin :-)
To inform you, Polysporin is an antiseptic with an antibiotic.
It will help you if you getting hurt like you cut yourself
It will prevent germ to enter in the sore, it will help the cure, and it will help to leave the less cicatrix on your skin
So, today, Polysporin is my God
:-D
and don't get insulted about that
In our life, everybody will tell the same
" Nothing is perfect "
What i mean about that is in our past years, in my past years, we all had to walk across many steps to achieve what we are actually.
It could be losing a parent, it could be a lover that you are not able to forget, with me, it could be
many thing too that i could say if i did not had to pass thru thoses i sould be far from where I am now
EVERYBODY will tell the same !!
I took drugs, because my dad never hug me
I became crazy at 10 years old because my parents never gave me the dog i would like
My father was hitting me all the times
So, i think i don't have to give you more stupid example, you should understand what i mean
All thoses are cicatrix
IN MOST OF THE TIME, cause when we had been hurted, even many years later, you didn't feel the pain of thoses past injury (but sometimes we could had been hurted so hard that the pain is still there)
But the cicatrix is still there, no pain, but a rememberance of the past in your body
Today i would like to thank God, i'm saying God, but maybe i'm calling him, her or it spiritual power, Pascal, Grandma, or else for the life i have now
I would like to thank <("god")> to be my polysporin
to help me to remove my scars, plagues, and cicatrix
to help me to recover from thoses wound
to help getting my eyes WIDE OPEN to see again all thoses wonders of life
that i forgot during some past black and grey days because when it's dark it's very hard to see the sun
Now sun is in my life, it's so a nice feeling and i'm so not accustomed to it that it's like to look at the sun and crying of happiness
Remember !
Nothing is perfect, and nothing happen for nothing
If there is a step in front of you that makes you fall it's because you have to learn something from this experiment, even if it hurt's you very bad that you think you will die, it will always have something to learn from it
Do not forget ...nothing happen for nothing and if you have to stumble it's because you are able to lift up
Love
SwapFilez
Also known as Techboy
But you can call me
Simon
¶;-P
xx
A wonderful day in my life
i'm feeling very fine theses days, (in overall) :-)
yesterday, at the job, i went out for dinner at a restaurant
it was a lovely sunny day
so there was a place to eat outside and that's where i sit
i was listening to nice music, eating a nice meal, and i was
feeling great .
the sun, and the warm wind on me,
looking to people and sometimes there was some nice ladies
offering me like an extra some nice smelling and sight
(parenthesis) :-P so what :-P LOL
should close my eyes when a lady walking near me ¶:-P
and all this during my working day
how lucky i was !!!
how many people take the time to enjoy their day??
not many
i enjoy most of each day that is offered to me...
yep
offered to me cause we never know what is going to happen
tomorrow or in an hour
so that was my wonderful lovely day isn't not nice :-D
ALWAYS REMEMBER !!
Happiness is not a fish that we can catch
You will not find happiness thru another person or an adiction
sex adiction, affection addiction, drugs or else
Happiness is inside us, we have to nourrish it like our interior fire that keep us alive
the more we are attentive to ourselves the more we will enjoy our life
see ya
take care
Sim.
yesterday, at the job, i went out for dinner at a restaurant
it was a lovely sunny day
so there was a place to eat outside and that's where i sit
i was listening to nice music, eating a nice meal, and i was
feeling great .
the sun, and the warm wind on me,
looking to people and sometimes there was some nice ladies
offering me like an extra some nice smelling and sight
(parenthesis) :-P so what :-P LOL
should close my eyes when a lady walking near me ¶:-P
and all this during my working day
how lucky i was !!!
how many people take the time to enjoy their day??
not many
i enjoy most of each day that is offered to me...
yep
offered to me cause we never know what is going to happen
tomorrow or in an hour
so that was my wonderful lovely day isn't not nice :-D
ALWAYS REMEMBER !!
Happiness is not a fish that we can catch
You will not find happiness thru another person or an adiction
sex adiction, affection addiction, drugs or else
Happiness is inside us, we have to nourrish it like our interior fire that keep us alive
the more we are attentive to ourselves the more we will enjoy our life
see ya
take care
Sim.
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